Premarital Preparation Profile

Section 1 Personal Information

Name *

Age *

Mailing Address *

Email Address *

Cell Phone *

ex 123-456-7890

Date of Wedding Rehearsal *

Time of Wedding Rehearsal *

:

Wedding Date, Time, & Location *

Place of Birth *

Where did you live growing up *

Father Living *

Yes

No

Mother Living *

Yes

No

Father's Occupation *

Mother's Occupation *

Will your parents attend the ceremony *

Yes

No

Explain why not *

Do parent's approve of your marriage *

Yes

No

Total Siblings *

Brothers *

Sisters *

Your birth order *

Highest level of education completed *

Present Occupation/Employer *

Future Occupation Plans *

Have you been married before *

Yes

No

How many times *

When was the divorce finalized *

Briefly describe factors leading to divorce *

Do you have children from a previous marriage *

Yes

No

How many & what ages *

Section 2 Couple Information

How long have you known your fiancé? *

How did you meet? *

What positive qualities initially attracted you? *

What other qualities have you since come to appreciate? *

What negative traits have you noticed about your fiancé? *

When did you decide to get married? *

Have you been living together? *

Yes

No

How Long? *

Why did you decide to move in together? *

What strengths do you feel you have as a couple that will make the good times better and bad times bearable? *

What weaknesses do you see in your relationship? *

How do you and your fiancé settle disagreements and arguments? *

What subjects usually cause disagreements? *

Section 3 The Marriage Relationship

3. 1 Emotionally

When I am happy I: *

When my fiancé is happy he/she: *

When I am tense I: *

When my fiancé is tense he/she: *

When I am sad I: *

When my fiancé is sad he/she: *

3. 2 Intellectually

When I have a problem to work out or a decision to make I: *

When my fiancé has a problem or a decision to make he/she: *

I like to read and talk about: *

My fiancé likes to read and talk about: *

3. 3 Moral Values

My Values Concerning Drugs *

My Fiancé’s Values Concerning Drugs *

My Values Concerning Alcohol *

My Fiancé’s Values Concerning Alcohol *

My Values Concerning Gambling *

My Fiancé’s Values Concerning Gambling *

My Values Concerning Adultery *

My Fiancé’s Values Concerning Adultery *

My Values Concerning Abortion *

My Fiancé’s Values Concerning Abortion *

My Values Concerning Adoption *

My Fiancé’s Values Concerning Adoption *

3. 4 Physical Affection

About affection, my fiancé thinks I am: *

not affectionate enough

just right

too affectionate

About affection, I think my fiancé is: *

not affectionate enough

just right

too affectionate

My church background as a child: *

My fiancé’s church background: *

The church I regularly attend is: *

The church my fiancé attends is: *

To me, my relationship with God is: *

irrelevant

not very important

fairly important

very important

To my fiancé, God is: *

irrelevant

not very important

fairly important

Option 4

3. 5 Spiritually

I consider myself a Christian *

Yes

No

Explay why and what do you believe *

Why not? What do you believe *

Briefly describe your present relationship with God *

3. 6 Communication

I see myself as a: *

Talker

Listener

(check all that apply)

My fiancé sees me as: *

Talker

Listener

(check all that apply)

I see my fiancé as a: *

Talker

Listener

(check all that apply)

My fiancé sees him/herself as a: *

Talker

Listener

(check all that apply)

3. 7 Finances

My usual policy about paying bills: *

My fiancé’s usual policy about paying bills: *

My usual policy about buying something: *

My fiancé’s usual policy about buying something: *

My usual policy about saving money: *

My fiancé’s usual policy about saving money: *

My usual policy about if there's $25 left to spend: *

My fiancé’s policy about if there's $25 left to spend: *

3. 8 Relatives/Friends

How I feel about my fiancé’s parents: *

How my fiancé feels about my parents: *

How my parents feel about my fiancé: *

How my fiancé’s parents feel about me: *

How I feel about my fiancé’s friends: *

How my fiancé feels about my friends: *

3. 9 Family Origin

I would describe my childhood as: *

Please describe how each of the following were handled in your home growing up:

Affection/Love/Caring *

Anger *

Correction/Criticism/Disapproval *

Disagreement/Arguments/Fights *

How Decisions Were Made *

How Money Was Handled *

3. 10 Activities

My favorite outdoor activities: *

My fiancé’s favorite outdoor activities: *

My hobbies: *

My fiancé’s hobbies: *

3. 11 Children

How many children would you like to have? *

The mother's responsibility in child-raising is: *

The father's responsibility in child-raising is: *

Section 4 Marriage

Describe your idea of a good marriage: *

In a good marriage the husband's responsibility is: *

In a good marriage the wife's responsibility is: *

What experiences, observations or other factors have been most influential in forming your ideas about marriage? *

Please list any books on marriage you have read within the last year: *

To make this marriage work I am going to: *

List any other goals or qualities you and your fiancé have discussed and have decided you want to develop in your marriage relationship: *

Section 1 Personal Information

Section 2 Couple Information

Section 3 The Marriage Relationship

3. 1 Emotionally

3. 2 Intellectually

3. 3 Moral Values

3. 4 Physical Affection

3. 5 Spiritually

3. 6 Communication

3. 7 Finances

3. 8 Relatives/Friends

3. 9 Family Origin

3. 10 Activities

3. 11 Children

Section 4 Marriage

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